Unadulterated
1:1 Recovery
Coaching
Recovery coaching isn't 12-step sponsorship, clinical therapy, or a hand-holding pep talk. It's a high-velocity, strategic partnership designed to bridge the gap between just being sober and truly living. While traditional methods focus largely on the mechanics of how to get sober, we focus on the systems that inspire you to stay sober.
We don't just look at where you've been. We map the ways your addictive patterns are still stunting your life right now. The leaks in your finances, the physical potential you're leaving on the table, the sexual circuitry that's never been rewired. We look at why your friendships feel shallow, why the hobbies you once loved went quiet, where your sense of purpose has flatlined. This isn't a generic map. It's a game plan built around your specific reality.
I'm not here to help you find excuses. I'm here to help you find your edge.
If you're ready for accountability from someone who has been to the darkest places this life can take you and came back sharper for it, we should talk. We don't just stay clean here. We build a system of structure and truth that makes sobriety the sexiest thing about you.
White-knuckling a life you don't even like isn't the destination. Becoming the man you're actually proud to wake up as? That's the real work. I've built a life I once thought was impossible. Now I'm here to help you do the same.
Topics We Might Explore
Rediscover physical connection without dissociation, escape, or performance.
Unmanaged wreckage from the past keeps us stuck. We’ll audit your finances, your career, and your social circles to stop the self-sabotage and build a foundation that holds weight.
Strip away the masks, the shame, and the survival personas to meet the version of you that’s been there all along.
Rediscover physical connection without dissociation, escape, or performance.
How it
Actually
Works
1) Schedule a Connection Call
Let’s start with a 30-minute chat to explore where you’re at and where you want to be. It’s 100% casual, zero pressure, and zero expectations. If we’re a fit, we’ll talk next steps. If I’m not the right guide for your specific journey, I’ll point you toward someone who is.
2) Choose Your
Pace
If we decide to move forward together, we’ll select the container that fits your goals. Whether it’s individual intensive sessions, a 6-session block, or a deep 3-month immersion, we’ll design a cadence that keeps you moving forward without burning out.
3) Do The
Work
This is where the shift becomes real. We’ll meet regularly and stay connected via WhatsApp voice notes between sessions for real-time support. You aren't just getting a coach; you’re getting a strategy, high-level accountability, and a partner in building your next era.
Recovery Coaching is for you if you're ready for..
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A "Real-Time" Support System. You need more than a weekly 12-Step meeting. You want someone on-call when life gets loud—someone to help you regulate, reframe, and reset before a moment becomes a relapse.
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The End of Isolation. You’ve been trying to carry the emotional weight solo, and it’s not working. You’re ready for a partnership rooted in grounded guidance, structure, and zero judgment.
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Tactical Accountability. You want the "Daily Check-in" advantage. Whether it’s live calls or WhatsApp voice notes, you’re looking for someone to ensure you’re following through, especially on the days your motivation hits zero.
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Social & Sexual Strategy. You’re navigating the front lines of dating, sex, and the gay social scene. You need the "battle-tested" tools to stay aligned and confident in high-stakes, triggering moments.
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A Blueprint for Stagnation. You’ve been “ready” for a long time, but you’ve lacked the direction to move. You’re ready to trade your excuses for a structured system that guarantees progress.
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Unfiltered Truth. You want an ally and coach who sees the potential you’ve been hiding and won't let you settle for a "muted" version of your life.
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About
Me
I’m fun, fiercely loving, and 100% judgment-free Chances are, I’ve done it, heard it, or seen it all. While I am a Certified Addictions Recovery Coach (CCAR), my real expertise comes from the front lines. I live, eat, and breathe recovery! Not because it’s my whole identity, but because I know it’s the best damn thing I’ve ever done. Seriously, I think being sober is the sexiest thing on earth, and I want you to experience it. My sober date is 9/19/2019.
To me, recovery is an art form. Mine is shaped by rigorous exercise, plants, deep relationships, wild new experiences, and a tight connection with something bigger than me (call it God, the Universe, Tao, whatever works for you).
My coaching style? Direct, structured, and unapologetically from the heart. I won’t coddle you, but I will have your back every single step of the way as we build a life you're finally proud of.